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Alex Smith ([personal profile] rinnia) wrote2008-07-21 05:49 pm

Sometimes, all the pieces just fit.

A quick note: Jaime's counts came up enough that he was able to get his port put in on Thursday. He's quite pleased with it. They drew his blood earlier today, but it was through his fingertip, so we're still not sure how they access the thing. He starts his next arm of chemo on Wednesday, so I suppose we'll find out then, yeah?

A second quick note: His hair started falling out. We clipped it real short so it wouldn't be as much of a hassle. Now, though, there's little black hairs coating everywhere he's been. Jaime said (and he was right about it) that he could blame the hairs on Zion. Unfortunately, that excuse was invalidated by the fact that he told the idea to both me and Mary. I snapped some pictures of him the other day - his port wound, his new haircut, and just some smiles - that may find their way up here fairly soon.

Now, on to the main entry. I was reading Project Rungay last night and came across an entry about Jay McCarroll. Being that he's my favorite PR designer ever, my attention was immediately captured. Turns out he'll be on QVC tonight (which I will be watching, oh yes, I will. I may not be able to afford anything, but I'll still 'ooo' and 'ahh' over it all.) with some really nifty sounding pieces. I hadn't checked his online store in a while, so I breezed through and was stopped short by this. The cause, even the name, hit me just right. If I had the money to spare, I'd snap one up this instant. Instead, I'd encourage all of you to purchase one. There's a guy's version too, if that's more your speed.

I'm not sure what compelled me to click through to his blog just then, but something did, and I did. The top entry was about Alex's Lemonade Stand. As I read about it, I felt the ache more and more, until I couldn't hold it in. I knew I had to leave a comment, just to thank him for contributing to such a wonderful cause. Jaime's treatment is my world right now, so I couldn't help but mention him, and I think getting that out there just helps emotionally so much. It brings everything to a more personal level, and when you're dealing with something like this, the personal is the most important part. Comments are automatically screened on his blog, so after I hit "Submit", I closed the page and went about the rest of my quiet evening. After we got back from Jaime's blood tests today, I thought I'd check and see if my comment had been approved.

Imagine my surprise when I saw this.

Honestly, I'm stunned, and touched, and just swelled with hope and determination and full-fledged joy. All the good energy that's been sent Jaime's way is... I can't even describe it. I'm in awe. Truly in awe.

To everyone that's ever stopped and offered something - time, money, compassion - to someone who's suffering, thank you. Just... thank you.

[identity profile] brainrat.livejournal.com 2008-07-21 10:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow, that guy comes up with some lovely stuff. I will be 'ooo'ing and 'aah'ing wif you. :) And what a nice guy with the blog-thing!

I'm always glad to hear about Jaime, even though I don't really know him, because he sounds like such an awesome guy. You guys are really inspiring, I guess is what I'm trying to say, and I admire you for being so...well...genuinely you and fantastic even through this tough time. <3<3<3 love for both of you, as always.

[identity profile] rinnia.livejournal.com 2008-07-22 07:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Doesn't he just? Have you seen his collections from Fashion Week? Just spectacular. And yeah, he seems like a great guy too! :)

Awww, thank you so much, Sami. Rest assured, I jabber about you to him a fair amount too. He really is an awesome guy - I only wish I could get all my friends in one place for a big old party or something. Maybe someday. Love for you as well!

Jay's Eleven Minutes

(Anonymous) 2008-07-22 12:57 am (UTC)(link)
Jay's in a documentary called Eleven Minutes about the creation of his line (that color-block coat on QVC being one of them). If laughter is the best medicine, you and Jaime might really enjoy it. It's hilarious. Write me, and I'll send you a special copy (it's not out to public yet, only in festivals, but I have connections ;-) www.jaymccarrolldocumentary.com

Re: Jay's Eleven Minutes

[identity profile] rinnia.livejournal.com 2008-07-22 07:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh my gosh, I'd be thrilled! Thank you thank you thank you! Jaime and I are both Jay fans, and we've been looking forward to that movie. Now my only question is, where do I write to you at? If you see this comment, e-mail me at rinoaheartilly@gmail.com please! :D

[identity profile] eidolon-nine.livejournal.com 2008-07-22 06:49 am (UTC)(link)
I hope the port makes the rest of the treatment easier, and I hope the next arm is as hassle-free as possible. The lemonade stand idea is very sweet and inspiring, the sort of thing that makes you appreciate how many truly *good* people there are in this world. Yesterday at Mass, we had Jaime in the special intentions, so there will be lots of good thought his way. (Or rather, the good thoughts will be directed toward "Jamie... Gar- Garcia?" *sigh*)

[identity profile] rinnia.livejournal.com 2008-07-22 07:22 pm (UTC)(link)
From what I've read, it seems like the port will be a real blessing. It's under his skin, so once the installation incision heals up, he'll be able to shower and swim and exercise and everything. He couldn't get the PICC line wet, plus it was hanging out of his arm and he wasn't allowed to lift more than ten pounds, so this is a huge improvement.

Thanks for all your compassion. I'm sure the good thoughts will reach him - Jaime says that "Jamie Garcia" is close enough. Pretty much all the nurses he's had have called him Jamie. Heck, one of the nurses at the Cancer Center here in town has started referring to him as James. Slippery slope, yeah? Jaime's amused by the whole thing, really.

Hey - e-mail me and tell me about your recent trip/adventure. I'm curious! :D